I had a lovely conversation recently with someone who told me they have to use notes when presenting; more specifically, they feel they need to read their speech when speaking in public. They saw this as a problem. Which made me wonder… a problem for whom? It’s worth saying that they’re not a professional speaker. […]
Can you be a good speaker if you have to use notes? Read More »
Ever been asked what you do … and watched someone lose interest halfway through your answer? You’re not alone. Most of us know our work inside out, but struggle to explain it simply. The issue isn’t your value, it’s just that you’re not very good at explaining it so the other person can join the
How to make sure that when you explain what you do they get what you do! Read More »
You’re about to speak. Maybe it’s a team meeting, a client call, or a big presentation. Your heart races, your mouth dries up, and your mind goes blank. Panic sets in. What causes the panic Your brain is doing its job which is to keep you alive. When you speak in front of others, your
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Last month I was interviewed for the Hustle and Giggle podcast. It’s an easy listen and if you don’t know me well it certainly works as an introduction! Amongst discussions about my daughters’s weddings and how Partners With You started, we also cover the power of posture to change your mind and what to do
Would you say yes if invited on a podcast? Read More »
The festive season is here! Cue twinkly lights, mince pies and a flurry of work events. Whether you love a good get-together or need a bit of a nudge to join in, this can be your chance to connect and show up as the best version of you. I’m not just talking about donning a
How to make the most of office parties (or any other event you’re attending). Read More »
If you run a business, you’ll probably find yourself presenting more often than expected. Whether pitching to investors, updating your team, or talking to potential clients the way you present makes a real difference … good presentations build trust while poor ones do the opposite. Rehearsal is key to feeling confident, but too much practice
How to rehearse without sounding rehearsed. Read More »
Recently, I had to get something of ours fixed. It doesn’t matter what it was, let’s just say it was big, used regularly, and its absence was very inconvenient. The initial visit was promising. The technician came out quickly, diagnosed the issue, and told me they needed to get a quote for the part. “It
Why ghosting your customers is never good service. Read More »
Why do some people assume that their teams are driven only by pay rises, perks, or promotions? While these are certainly important, they’re rarely what creates long-term motivation. In truth, people want to feel heard, valued, and have a purpose, and the way you communicate with them can make all the difference. If you’ve ever
What really motivates your team? Read More »
In a world where instant replies and knee-jerk reactions dominate headlines (and social media feeds) it’s easy to fall into the trap of thinking that fast equals strong. Recent high-profile spats between Donald Trump and Elon Musk are a stark reminder of how reactive communication can overshadow reflection, erode credibility and escalate tension. But what
Why delaying your response can be a strategic advantage. Read More »
My father was an erudite man with a love of language and a great pun. A true wordsmith, he had a vast library of books that he frequently consulted when writing speeches or presentations. When he died some 30 years ago, I inherited some of those treasured volumes. And while I may not share
How my father introduced me to some great insults! Read More »
